Thursday, October 15, 2009
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Friday, August 28, 2009
we're at the pool so mom can post
Tuesday, July 07, 2009
What about me???????
The summer of 2009 will officially go down as the "What about ME?" summer.
These girls are lovely (slightly indulged) delightful and fun. One huge glaring flaw-thanks to human nature-is a focus on themselves when it comes to praise. Lately, no complement can be paid to either without the other piping up "What about me?"
Now, this is where it gets tricky.
Both are special in their own way and as a parent you want to be fair but you also want to recognize their uniqueness. The "what about me?"s plays the fair against the unique.
Is it a play for equality?
Is it the green eyed monster longing for attention?
Is it simply sin nature wanting a focus on what is good about them not the other?
My gut tells me it could be any of the three depending on the situation.
Regardless, as a parent it is challenging to combat! My gut also tells me it isn't going to get any easier.
These girls are lovely (slightly indulged) delightful and fun. One huge glaring flaw-thanks to human nature-is a focus on themselves when it comes to praise. Lately, no complement can be paid to either without the other piping up "What about me?"
Now, this is where it gets tricky.
Both are special in their own way and as a parent you want to be fair but you also want to recognize their uniqueness. The "what about me?"s plays the fair against the unique.
Is it a play for equality?
Is it the green eyed monster longing for attention?
Is it simply sin nature wanting a focus on what is good about them not the other?
My gut tells me it could be any of the three depending on the situation.
Regardless, as a parent it is challenging to combat! My gut also tells me it isn't going to get any easier.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Random quotes from the first afternoon of summer
"Moooommm!!
I told her nicely that I was using that room and she needed to get out, but she won't leave!!!"
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"Are you taking us out to lunch? It IS the last day of school!"
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"I won't see ANYONE ALL SUMMER." (I counter with a name) "Besides them" (I offer another name, "Besides them too!"
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"Now that school is over, what are we doing tomorrow??"
I told her nicely that I was using that room and she needed to get out, but she won't leave!!!"
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"Are you taking us out to lunch? It IS the last day of school!"
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"I won't see ANYONE ALL SUMMER." (I counter with a name) "Besides them" (I offer another name, "Besides them too!"
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"Now that school is over, what are we doing tomorrow??"
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